Why Conversations Escalate
Why can a small disagreement turn into a full conflict within minutes? Follow the feedback loop between threat, arousal, anger, interpretation and reciprocal behavior.
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Communication & Conflict
Conflict Without Collapse
Explore escalation, overload, withdrawal, repair, power, and negotiation without treating all conflict as symmetrical or every communication technique as a cure for coercion or abuse.
4 Articles
2 Explained · 1 Deep Dive · 1 Question & Debate
Articles in this Collection
Stonewalling: Protection, Punishment or Overload?
When someone shuts down during conflict, are they protecting themselves, punishing you or simply overwhelmed? Demand-withdraw research shows why the answer depends on context.
Repair Attempts: The Small Signals That Stop Conflict
Humor, validation, responsibility and apology can interrupt conflict before the issue is solved. The research on repair explains why timing and trust matter.
How to Negotiate Without Turning the Other Person Into an Enemy
Negotiation is not the art of defeating another person. Research on anger, silence, perspective and value creation shows how to protect your interests without creating an enemy.